a toy upgrade

On my other site this morning, I posted about feeling depleted, needing replenishment. One might imagine that finding some time to get my hands on myself would be one way to do that. Yet, at moments of deep exhaustion, I find it’s harder for me to find my way to …

welcome back home

It’s May again, which means it’s National Masturbation/Radical Self Love Month again. Welcome! Whenever I talk to folks about this blog project, …

Settling in (& Rosie Lugosi!)

Welcome to Coming Home’s new digs! This will be the permanent home for the Coming Home Project: Reclaiming masturbation and radical self-love. …

Coming back to old knowing

The first official non-NaMaMo post, here eleven days into the new month. I think I said, at the end of the last …

Coming Home: Day 29 — Perhaps

On this near-last day of this month of transformative work, I’m hearing all the censor voices, the voices who don’t want this …