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a toy upgrade

On my other site this morning, I posted about feeling depleted, needing replenishment. One might imagine that finding some time to get my hands on myself would be one way to do that. Yet, at moments of deep exhaustion, I find it’s harder for me to find my way to …

how did you learn to touch yourself?

Do you remember the first lessons you ever got about touching your body, about masturbation, about self-pleasure? Did you learn on your own? Did friends or siblings teach you, directly or inadvertently? Did you learn from reading or movies or tv? Did your family have lessons or messages about self-pleasure? …

welcome back home

It’s May again, which means it’s National Masturbation/Radical Self Love Month again. Welcome! Whenever I talk to folks about this blog project, or about May being National Masturbation Month, at first they laugh, and then they make a joke — like, “Well, I’m all ready for that month!” I think, …

Settling in (& Rosie Lugosi!)

Welcome to Coming Home’s new digs! This will be the permanent home for the Coming Home Project: Reclaiming masturbation and radical self-love. I’m getting settled in, cleaning up, unpacking all the boxes, generally figuring out what’s going to go where. Soon enough it’ll be time to start putting new words …

Coming Home: Day 31 — getting curious about radical self love

Today’s the last day of National Masturbation Month — how have these thirty-one days of radical self love treated you? Have you come every day, or loved on yourself most days, or thought more frequently about how your body likes to be tended to? How have you marked National Masturbation …