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May 2013

a toy upgrade

On my other site this morning, I posted about feeling depleted, needing replenishment. One might imagine that finding some time to get my hands on myself would be one way to do that. Yet, at moments of deep exhaustion, I find it’s harder for me to find my way to …

how did you learn to touch yourself?

Do you remember the first lessons you ever got about touching your body, about masturbation, about self-pleasure? Did you learn on your own? Did friends or siblings teach you, directly or inadvertently? Did you learn from reading or movies or tv? Did your family have lessons or messages about self-pleasure? …

welcome back home

It’s May again, which means it’s National Masturbation/Radical Self Love Month again. Welcome! Whenever I talk to folks about this blog project, or about May being National Masturbation Month, at first they laugh, and then they make a joke — like, “Well, I’m all ready for that month!” I think, …